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Sometimes you get into a situation when you are comfortably sitting and relaxing in a chair where you think nothing can disturb your peace. But then again that never lasts. Human beings and their expectations. People ask you to do things. People ask you to ask people to do things.

Lets look into the math of situations. Someone asks you to do something. There are 3 possible outcomes. You do it, you dun do it and you ignore. Ok one may argue dun do it and ignore aint it the same thing? It's not. Ignore, means you are still in deliberation and have not made a decision. To not do it is to give a straightforward rejection. So suppose you agree to persuade someone to do person A request, Which is 1/3 probability, what are the chances person B will agree to your persuasion? Very smart 1/3 chance again. So lets see the probability of matters, If you ask someone to do something on your behalf the chances of success is 1/9.  This means every 9 ppl u ask 1 person will agree. This means asking the person personally will have a higher chance of success (1/3). Therefore lesson learnt, if you want something ask it yourself.

Things get complicated when person A makes a request and expects 1 outcome. Is this fair? Lets look into the justice system then. Is there a law that puts you in prison if you decide to reject an old lady cross a road? Apparently not. You can just ignore or reject the old lady. It seems our law does not force people to agree to every request.  Looking on the other side of things, if you are asked to kill someone and you agree to it, you will get into trouble. As you can see, the justice system will not punish you if you do not do anything. Is it fair? Yes. It means we can sit on our chair and relax.

I have discussed the scientific and judicial aspect of people asking you to do things. So lets look at the psychological aspect of things. I would in this case group psychological and emotional aspects together. Depite feeling emotion in ur heart, the control center is actually the brain. This is toughest to handle. There are no proof and no defence. When ppl interact a huge variety of emotions take place. Its not just yes, no or maybe. There is happiness, sadness, love, angry, lonely and many many. The adjectives are aplenty. So when ppl interact or socialise the permutations are infinite. These emotions affect all scientific and judicial aspects. People when not emotionally charged will never kill someone. But when emotionally charged, ppl do anything. Psychology is interesting as it not only involves the individual but the people around them. The need to feel accepted by people around cannot be vanquished. And when they get a hint of disattisfaction they start think what others are thinking and more time than not, they think others are thinking negatively about them. Its amazing how the mind works to not only comprehend the many feelings in oneself put in others too. Sometimes it creates something out of nothing. So to avoid doing so I try to put smiley faces in other peoples minds. It might not be true but then again i wouldnt know. Emotions disrupts your sitting and relaxing on your chair.
 
I'm done here, and will leave you to do your own conclusions. My sitting on my chair has been disrupted, I guess I can only do one thing. Sleep in my bed and hope for a dream within a dream within a dream within a dream.

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from 20th jan to 1st feb i owe my readers first. LEts talk about today.

Today is a very lucky day haha

Met LL in sch to accompany me to tm.
Saw that the tm room was wrong early on.
Won meet and greet passes and concert to glen fredly concert.
Won table topics ribbon.

So happy =)

18 Jan 2010- Burger day. Cycling, ramlyburger, macs, ecp cycle, monopoly deal, macs, thomson, tpy

19 Jan 2010- BFF day. Dev chess, jac print certs, tm jr league, pc home

Morning wake up, bfast, webcam and den weights. Dinner at swensens. Sat by esplanade. Music from the movie a walk to remember. saw val at bustop at tpy. went to exercise corner.

4th Jan- Cant remember wad happened.
5th Jan- Sent phone to Nokia. Met LL for briyani lunch at west coast. Walked at west coast park. Went for TM meeting
6th Jan- Went to val's house, play in her under renovation house. Dinner at popeyes. Sat at mac and den home.
7th Jan- Went JB, met LL for dinner at newton foodcentre. Stingrays and such. Got fined for not putting coupon.
8th Jan- First day of school! After that went to donate blood for the First time! And den at night dinner with maple ppl for the First bdae of the year!
9th Jan- Met LL at TPY. Lunch at fork and spoons. Went to get drinks and slack at the park opp TPY central.
10th Jan- Went hougang for bfast wif parents, met grandad at his home. Went Tamp collect phone. Day ended.
11th Jan- Went for a walk at bedok reservoir. Pick ups, went to school. Lunch at megabites and den went to class. Went home after class.
12th Jan- morning class, lunch and den cca booth.2nd class and den NTU inspire chapter meeting. General evaluation was good.
13th Jan- morning class, met LL for shavings lol. Den crazily went to mcms to apply for exco. went for toastmasters exco meeting. went for mcms interview. met LL again. class. home. Super high day and super tired. Slept at 9pm and woke up at 5am.
14th Jan- went to jb in morning. Secret recipe lunch. Met LL for movie. Blindside which was not bad.
15th Jan- fri prayers, pick val, jam. was lost in class. went for jog arnd bedok reservoir.
16th Jan- TM COT 2 at ntua. After that went for car ride wif LL. bought super long paper thosai and den went downtown east wif parents.

2nd Dec- was the last time i blogged. So I guess it was the day i had some time at home.
3rd Dec- Check exam results in morning. 3 Dog and 1 Cat. Everyone appearing offline, but still msn wif me. So I more or less knew other ppl results too b4 10am haha.Picked LL and den met QJ to collect wii-motes. LW,Val and ZJ came and lunched. PC kaypo comeby as well haha.

Went to my house. Mum not home. Wii in my room and den followed by sabo. Sent LL home, takeaway kfc. Met ZJ and val at macs. A bit late due to traffic situation at tpy ^^ haha.
Chat there and den home.

4th Dec- Fri prayers, reach home prepare for toastmasters speech. Dinner with parents. Continued to do speech in airport.

5th Dec- Met LL and was early for achievers day. Mainly coz, i wanted to prepare for speech. Achievers day went smoothly, but my speech was horrendously presented.Fly kite at sim rooftop was to no avail. Send LL home and went to aunts house. Eat and sleep there till like 1am.

6th Dec- I dunno what happen, maybe stay at home or someone drugged me lol

7th Dec- Badminton at tampines wif QJ, WK, CW, MH, LW, ZJ and the rest are dunno who ppl lol. Din din at BK. Night minds cafe @ safra wif zj,lw and qj. Played citadels and sabo.

8th Dec- Slack in school wif LL and den toastmasters. Evaluation session by WY. Home.

9th Dec- Went to ECP cycling wif LL. Chill at changi beach. Mac wings dinner. TPY ^^

10th Dec- KL trip. drove up.In between buffet breakfast at intercontinental and had A&W waffles. Reach arnd 1pm. Times square hotel. Lunch at pavillion. Dinner at secret recipe. Met uncles at hilton. Cousin came at night. Had subway for supper

11th Dec- still in KL. buffet Breakfast. Fri prayers.Went next door for lunch. Had wendy and den old town white coffee. Went Ps. Went KLCC. NAndos for dinner. Secret recipe for dessert. Donuts for supper.

12th Dec- Buffet breakfast. Lunch at pavilion was carl's junior. Drove back to JB. blackout in jb town jam. Buffet dinner at new york hotel. Home.

13th Dec- 1 Mth anniversary. Met LL at AMK. Fish n Co. Hike at macritchie. Back to AMK,had yoghurt and snacks at mac.

14 Dec- I think i stayed at home.

15th Dec- Reenrolment. Met LL afterthat for lunch at alumni. Drove arnd and settled for a park. Met the rest at bugis for sheesha. Dinner at some hawker opposite.

16th Dec- Sent aunt home and so i was at the airport early. After which i went to jb, petrol and lunch. Met LL in the evening. Watched princess and the frog, nice nice.

17th Dec- Walking the southern ridges with qj, mh, lw. Top 2 model of the day coz 2 of them were photographers. Ppl were late and our walk actually started at noon. Walked till 5 plus and got a little lost. Went past a japanese historical site. Scary reminds me of dead people hanging on the trees. At night 1st muharram, new year! Party! Went mosque and maulud and briyani.

18th Dec- Fri prayers, prep for tm meeting at DSTA. XMAS meeting so went by popular bought a $5 donald mug. DSTA meetng, pizzahut for refreshments nice. I got a cheapo tupperware which i later reused.

19th Dec- Toastmasters cohesion at minds cafe. $199 so ex sia. Should have just bought games and drinks and played at fort canning. After that went pool. Blackout. So left after only a game. Rex for dinner. Blackout again but it was back on after awhile. After that walked plaza sing. Bought poker deck and card games at smu. Truth or dare. Someone was made to run the entire smu block hahhaa. After that i went to meet LL for supper.

20th Dec- Went out early. Met LL. Walked the treetop walk at macritchie. finally completed that place. Monkeys crossed the bridge with us. Nice scenary. Met LL teacher wahaha. nice tower overseeing the place. Read book there nice.

21st Dec- JB wif mum and bought new stuff for sch

22nd Dec- TM xmas meeting. Nice meeting. Bought murtabak and i was surprised ppl actually liked it. A lot of food and presents. Nice fun. I got a lullalandz doll in exchange for the tupperware hahaha. http://lulalandz.blogspot.com/

23rd Dec- Met LL at tpy in the morning. Saw someone hehe. Was early for next appt. So went fortcanning to recce cum read my book. Finished the alchemist there. Was so in touch wif nature there. Felt as one with the surroundings. Met zj, lw and sm and den avatar. Super super nice! I dun mind watching it again. LW and SM left den we met cel at far east dinner there. Met bh. Went BK for saboteur.

24th Dec- LL went MCMS thing, so i went accompany my dad to do his operation.

25th Dec- Xmas hi-tea wif LL, QJ, Nora, HM, PC, sel at carousel. Eat eat. Finally got my belated bdae cum xmas present frm pc. Walk thru jam packed orchard road. Played l4d2 at cine. Went back wif LL to lido. watch sherlock holmes. and den homes vv

26th Dec- family came over my house. eat a lot and talk a lot as usual.

27th Dec- stoned at home.

28th Dec- Accompany LL in sch. Met the rest for lunch at islamic. Super poor service. Went sheesha. I think my bag the second best present next to the cards haha. Dunno why ppl so skeptical. Went bugis. Macs and den starbucks.

29th Dec- Lunch at swensens with LL at plaza sing. den went shopping till bugis. and den at night fort canning. Silly play my boomerang at night den had trouble finding it hahaha. Den just chillax and steal timbre music hahaa. Can hear from fort canning. Late night shopping at cityhall and den home.

30th Dec- Fri prayers, JB with mum.

31st Dec- Met AK for lunch and den dinner with family at airport. Heard ppl make noise as we were heading home from the carpark.

1st Jan- Fri prayers and serangoon gardens dinner.

2nd Jan- Stay at home and went dinner wif parents.

3rd Jan- Cycling at ECP. Met ZJ for dinner at bbq chicken at cine. played arcade and shop. home vv

24th nov seems to be where i last stopped and everyone's online stopped as well. My observation from ppl's blogs haha. Yes i do read ppl's blogs occasionally. Either nothing happened after 24th or too many things happened after 24th haha.

26th nov picked up my aunt from airport in the morning. Met LL afterwards and went ice skating. Very impromptu i like haha. My first time ice skating and it wasnt too bad i think. My jeans had a hole haha. Apparently ice skating wasnt the only first that night.

27th nov was hari raya haji so went darul takrim in morning, and heard a sermon. During which i recalled my past. 3 years ago i was doing my haji and was at the fields of arafat praying and today i feel i need to go there and pray again coz after 3 years i think i accumulated a lot of sins again. I'm regretful of whatever wrong i have done and i hope i dun do it again.
Sometimes i do wonder if my haj was a good one coz i dun think i changed after that. I should go there again and would like to go haj again if the one above allows me.

After that my uncles and aunts came my house. Watched a malay drama together. It was good and sad. About ungrateful kids and the nonsense they do. Sometimes i feel a little guilty watching it. After which fri prayers at bishan and den back to my house again. Watch the malay horror flick jangan tegur and i cant belief my uncle accidentally screamed hahaha. At night the ustaz came my house chat a little and end of day.

Saturday, lunch briyani at islamic and den back to my aunty house for tea. Dinner at downtown east and den dessert at swensens @ t2. Went home early to wake up for next day event.

Sunday 29th nov woke super early like 7am. went to buy bfast and met the rest of the family at big splash there. breakfast by the beach, den wanted to buy kite and cycle but it started to pour heavily and we trapped at a shelter. Although trapped it was a nice scene. A multiracial hut wif chi, indian and malays all trapped on a single shelter, enjoying the rain and slowly watch the place being flooded haha.

Rain stopped and we decided to go paris beach instead haha. bought kites and flew it there. rented a 2 seater bike and took turns riding around the place. The bike was super small so the back person cant cycle. So the onus was on the front person. After that bought dinner and chilled on the beach. Went to airport after that and den home.

Mon 30th nov, was le workshop at ntua. before that met ll in school. Chat awhile and dessert. Met a couple of ll frens as well. Cabbed to ntua and the workshop was good. Saw some familiar faces and overall a good experience.

Tues 1 Dec. Omg its December already and i did not go and find a job. Picked ll up and went to esplanade library. Watched serendipidty and den went for tm exco meeting. Got macs along the way.

Fantastic day today everything fell into place nicely. Morning woken up by catering company. They cater for 60 instead of 40 but super fahmy in da house. Made ammendments all within an hour. I dunno why i do stuff for div b tm at lightning speed. Sealed the deal in school though, scanner super slow so i improvised and used camera phone lol.

Accompanied ll study for awhile, den megabites and den tm. ll and zj came for tm meeting. The poetry meeting was not bad. LL apparently an expert in that field cannot anyhow make poem for her lol.

After TM is a secret, a good type of secret haha.